ourselves that we dislike。
Therefore； you can allow others to be the mirror to illuminate more clearly your own feelings of self…worth。 Conversely； you can view the people you judge negatively as mirrors to show you what you are not accepting about yourself。
To coexist peacefully with others； you will need to learn tolerance。 A big challenge is to shift your perspective radically from judgment of other to a lifelong exploration of yourself。 Your task is to assess all the decisions； judgments you make onto others and to begin to view them as clues to how you can heal yourself and bee whole。
I recently had a business lunch with a man who displayed objectionable table manners。 My first reaction was to judge him as offensive and his table manners as disgusting。 When I noticed that I was judging him； I stopped and asked myself what I was feeling。 I discovered that I was embarrassed to be seen with someone who was chewing with his mouth open and loudly blowing his nose。 I was astonished to find how much I cared about how the other people in the restaurant perceived me。
Remember that your judgment of someone will not serve as a protective shield against you being like him。 Just because I judged my lunch partner as offensive does not prevent me from ever looking or acting like him。 In the same way； extending tolerance to him would not cause me to suddenly begin chewing my food with my mouth open。
When you approach life in this manner； those with whom you have the greatest grievances as well as those you admire and love can be seen as mirrors； guiding you to discover parts of yourself that you reject and to embrace your greatest quality。
生命的啟示（1）
佚名
施與別人儘可能多的東西，並要欣然而為之。
牢記你最愛的詩歌。
不要相信你所聽來的一切，也不要耗盡你所擁有的一切，更不要將