的資訊？你會盡可能地找到原因，並焦慮地要把事情掰正。
然而，如果你所犯下的錯誤僅僅是做了你自己並且還想煞費苦心地改變它，這並不容易。
總會有一些人，他們就是不喜歡你的樣子，不喜歡你說話、微笑的方式。這些跟你的個性、是否做了錯事或是有什麼缺點都沒有關係。往往是你最好的特質招來了人的厭煩。
有些人就是會對那些沒招惹他的人生氣，對那些比他好的人產生敵意。他們永遠不會原諒你，而且還會期待著你受到懲罰。
如果下次你與這樣的人發生口角，別為此鬱悶，儘可能地逃走吧，並且別忘提醒自己，你不是那個有問題的人。
One of the best things in life is the offering of good pany： ready laughter； easy camaraderie and； whenever needed； an ear to listen； a shoulder to cry on； a hand to hold。
True friendship； worth its weight in gold； is easy to define in that it’s perfectly balanced； unaffected by privilege or position； both parties contributing to the best of their ability；and no one ever taking advantage。
The desire for friendship as an insurance against loneliness and isolation like any basic need makes us vulnerable； open to exploitation by those who use the cloak of friendship to hide a host of less honourable intentions。
Reasonably harmless are the kind who are friendly only when they stand to gain from it。 Worse are those who； eaten by envy and resentment； raise themselves by lowering another； trample on one who extends a helping hand； gain control exerting insidious pressure； and delight in someone else’s degradation。
Such people often masquerade as friends； but； really； they are enemies out to destroy： Extremely dangerous – and best avoided。
So watch out for the signs： beware false friends； whilst at the same time doubling your appreciation of those who prove themselves true。
I know of a young family。 The woman doesn’t believe in marriage。 Her father was a difficult； abusive man； her mother brow…beaten； down…trodden。 Determined not to risk ending up like her； she retains control of home and children。
Her partner is a good family man。 He would dearly lik